[All credit to Kristina Pedersen a.k.a. kristedersen, whose lovely picture may be found here]
“Chaos is rejecting all you have learned,
chaos is being yourself.”
Thirty Years Of Growing Pain(s)
The journey of a "motherless daughter" about to hit 30 and her search for kindred spirits
Thirty Years Of Growing Pain(s) 
How could I *not* like this? Your selections are always so timely and connected… even when they seem like they aren’t. They are!
[looks for bugs and wiretaps in house] O.O
Ha ha 🙂 That’s funny! I’m actually a rather ocd person, when it comes to neatness (Phil calls me “monkish”) and I have a hard time wrapping my head around how he can not only survive in his own chaos, but actually strive in it… .
To him it’s a concious choice of freedom, of not being tied down to rules and of forming his own pattern.
I’m not like that (which has it’s advantages and it’s disadvantages). I need to religiously abhore to a preset pattern to survive on a day to day basis.
I think it’s because I’m so chaotic inside I need structure outside.
He, on the other hand, is very much structured inside, so he doesn’t need an outside structure to reflect it – strange huh?
Sidenote: I loved the girls expression in this picture – you should really follow the link to Flickr and chose the largest setting and take a closer look at it. I can’t do it justice here and I am still undecided on what it reflects (pride, rebellion, satisfaction???)